December 11, 2009 at 10:10 am (Calvert County, Family & Friends, Maryland, Our favorite things, Pictures, Refections, Things we love to do)
Tags: Family, Maryland, Southern Maryland, Christmas, missing persons, NaMUs, Holidays, Bernadette Stevenson Caruso, Memories
A Christmas Tree for Bernadette…
Family Hopes Memories of Missing Woman May Help Others
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Prince Frederick MD, Dec 10, 2009 Every year since Bernadette Stevenson Caruso’s disappearance in Maryland in 1986 her family has put up a Christmas tree up for her. Each year the tree may be a little different but it always has some of Bernadette’s Christmas ornaments on it from the last tree Bernadette put up in 1985.
“I guess in our hearts it is a way to share Christmas with Bernadette no matter where she is. At Christmas we always planned our trees and what we were going to do each year. It is a special link we have had with Bernadette for all these years” says her sisters, Darlene Huntsman and Susan Bowerman. ” For some of our family members, I think the tree is hard but for most of us it is a special Christmas tradition and tribute to our little sister. It is the hope and promise in our hearts that maybe this year the answers will come. This is what Christmas is about sharing the love of those near and dear to our hearts.” says Mrs. Huntsman.
The sisters involvement with missing and unidentified persons motivated them to help establish, The Maryland Task Force for the Missing and Unidentified, Adults and Children, along with other families of Maryland’s missing persons. For the past couple of years they have run this non profit with time freely given and funds raised by its volunteers. Some of their events on behalf of the families of the missing and unidentified have brought national attention to efforts being used to help locate them, these events became models for other states to use. The Maryland Task Force holds public awareness events and speaks before groups such as Moose Lodges, church groups and organizations. They do this is to bring awareness to the fact that every 30 seconds someone in the U.S. disappears, an average of 850,000 persons per year. Approximately 105,000 of these cases remain unsolved. Almost half of these cases represent unidentified persons. The group is willing to speak before any group that is willing to open their hearts and minds about the missing and their families. “Awareness, action and prevention are the key to reducing these numbers” says Mrs. Bowerman.
This year Mrs. Huntsman entered a campaign on the internet at Brickfish.com. Brickfish is a social media community where you can create, view, and review content in many different campaigns for the chance to win rewards and prizes. The holiday campaign, sponsored by Underwriters Laboratories is; Share Your Bright Holiday Moments where you had to share online your most memorable holiday photos, videos and stories. Mrs. Huntsman wrote about her sister and the tree they put up each year and what it means to them. Mrs. Huntsman wanted to share Bernadette’s story and raise funds that will support the Maryland Task Force for the Missing and Unidentified’s efforts . “You have to be creative in these difficult economic times. Small non profits like ourselves are having a tough time” says Mrs. Huntsman. If her entry wins the prizes will be used to attention a national conferences which will provides attendees with investigative and forensic tools as well as new updates on cutting-edge technology. One of the objectives of the conference is to foster collaboration across geographic jurisdictions and the importance of communication among local, state and federal law enforcement and criminal justice practitioners. The group hopes to attend the conference and bring new hope to families of the missing. The group also hopes to raise money for computers and supplies to demonstrate The National Missing and Unidentified Persons System (NamUs) information system at their presentations. The National Missing and Unidentified Persons System (NamUs) is a clearinghouse for missing persons and unidentified decedent records. NamUs is a free online system that can be searched by medical examiners, coroners, law enforcement officials and the general public to solve these cases.
People can go on to the Brickfish.com website and click on the link with Bernadette’s picture to vote for the entry and leave a review. Voting each day improves the entry ranking and scores. This campaign ends December 22, 2009. The entry about Bernadette’s tree has climbed to 6th place out of 595 entries. For more information contact: Susan or Sam Bowerman at 304-261-3132.
Vote at:
Brickfish Website
http://safetyathome.com/contest/?pbb_qsi=27551785&=ecc_all_PPIMEMAIL
Task Force Website:
http://www.themarylandtaskforceforthemissingandunidentified.org/
Bernadette Stevenson Caruso
http://bernadettestevensoncaruso.wordpress.com/
The National Missing and Unidentified Persons System (NamUs)
http://www.namus.gov/
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December 8, 2009 at 9:31 pm (Family & Friends)
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December 6, 2009 at 11:46 am (Family & Friends)

Yes, I couldn’t resist sending in little Jack In his Santa hat! Isn’t he too cute for words! This is a very special Christmas indeed for all in our families with two new babies to enjoy!
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December 5, 2009 at 8:15 pm (Family & Friends)
Well thanks to everyone’s support Jack is doing really well in the Brickfish campaign. We have made it to 6th place! This campaign ends on Dec.8th, so we will see how it goes. Thanks again for your support.
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November 24, 2009 at 1:08 pm (Family & Friends)
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November 23, 2009 at 10:20 pm (Family & Friends)
Bernadette Stevenson Caruso was a warm and lovely twenty three year old wife and mother. Her friends and family describe her as a loving, devoted mother to her three year old daughter. Bernadette was the youngest of seven children in our family. She was my little sister. We were sisters sharing that special sister bond. Our lives were all entwined in the usual family ways, hanging out with siblings, getting our children together, celebrating family events and holidays. One of the last memories I have is shopping for Christmas tree trimmings together, it was important that our trees reflected our individual families and styles. It was a fun sister thing to do. I still remember our conversation was on bows, tinsel and ornaments. Sisters, there is nothing like them!
On September 27, 1986, Bernadette disappeared without a trace. She simply got off work and disappeared. Bernadette and her car just vanished. The lives of those she touched has never been the same. Her family and friends knew right away that Bernadette had met with foul play, she would never have left her family and little daughter. No leads, no information, no Bernadette. We still search for answers.
I remember Bernadette at Christmas time in a special way, Bernadette’s birthday was usually celebrated at our family’s Forth of July gathering. My daughter Sara Bernadette was born on New Years Eve in 1987, just in time to watch the fireworks with me as I had with her name sake, Aunt Bernadette on each birthday. What was more amazing was that Sara had come a month early.
This year as we have for the last twenty three years we will put up a Christmas tree for Bernadette and stand before it and say the promises that we have made in our hearts ” Bernadette, We miss you , we will never give up. We will bring you home.” Our family will gather as we decorate Bernadette’s tree having a glass of wine and sharing the memories of having had the gift of Bernadette in our lives. Our children, some who never got the chance to meet their aunt will again hear stories about her and continue to love their Aunt Bernadette simply because we have kept her alive in our hearts.
Bernadette Stevenson Caruso 
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November 23, 2009 at 8:55 pm (Family & Friends)
Please vote as often as you can!
We’ve gone from 215 place to 64th in one day!
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Do you realize how much we could do with the Maryland Task Force for the Missing and Unidentified with this money?
We could: Attend the Cue center conference next year!
Buy computer equipment and supplies with the Best Buy Gift Card!
Buy Billboard space to promote awareness about Maryland’s Missing
awareness.
Help establish a fund for families with missing that can not afford
fliers.
Help pay for Task Force Website & publications.
Help pay for search efforts.
Please help by voting as often as you can for this entry!
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November 22, 2009 at 1:14 pm (Family & Friends)
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November 19, 2009 at 6:11 pm (Family & Friends)
Yesterday Ebony had her babies! Twins, a boy and a girl. cute as a button they are! We are super busy the last couple of days and hopefully I will get to update my blog about my week on Friday, till then enjoy the pictures of the new babies at the farm.
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November 18, 2009 at 3:42 pm (Family & Friends)
Thanks everyone for your votes! Keep them coming!
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November 16, 2009 at 1:21 pm (Family & Friends)
Well, after one busy weekend and one tumble down the stairs, I’m feeling much better after seeing the little guy. I arrived this morning a little late moving slower this morning because I am so sore. All it took was the first smile from Jack to brighten my day, he even gave it to me with his passy in place! An hour of smiles and playtime with Jack melted my cares away. We have been signing together and I think he has Mommy and Daddy already! Well the little guy is awake from his nap and hungey so catch you all later!
Here is a picture of the handsome little guy!
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November 16, 2009 at 4:36 am (Family & Friends)

Little Jack!
Wow, In one day I made it form 74th place to 18th place! Thanks for your support, remember you can vote once a day!
http://www.brickfish.com/campaigns
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November 14, 2009 at 9:10 pm (Family & Friends)
It’s still delivery time here at the farm, Tobi has been at this since 12:30 and has four boys and more to come. Here are some pictures of the new litter! Gotta get back to Tobi!
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November 14, 2009 at 11:11 am (Family & Friends)
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November 13, 2009 at 12:56 pm (Calvert County, Cats, Chickens and Ducks, Dogs, Family & Friends, Goats, Home decorating, Llamas, Maryland, Meet the farm animals, Mini Donkeys, Our favorite things, Pictures, Things we love to do)
Here are some pictures taken at Magnolia Hill Farm.
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November 13, 2009 at 12:35 pm (Calvert County, Family & Friends, Home decorating, Maryland, Our favorite things, Pictures)
Tags: Animals, Calvert County, dar1955, decorating, farm, home, Maryland, Southern Maryland
Our home is a work in progress, we are still working on redoing bathrooms and eventually the kitchen. I love details it must have been from the days when I worked as a display person for The Limited. How I loved that job. These days it is just the finishing touches I get to put inside the house. We are a blend of the old and new here and I love mixing things up some. Jim no longer wants me to watch the home makeover or decorating shows. He use to joke that he never knew how the furniture would be arranged when he got home from work each day! LOL We always put pictures of the kids and farm animals so I thought I would share some inside pictures.
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November 12, 2009 at 11:15 am (Family & Friends)
A True Friend
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If I could catch a rainbow
I would do it just for you.
And share with you it’s beauty
On the days you’re feeling blue.
If I could build a mountain
You could call your very own.
A place to find serenity
A place to be alone.
If I could take your troubles
I would toss them into the sea,
But all these things I’m finding
Are impossible for me.
I cannot build a mountain
Or catch a rainbow fair,
But let me be what I know best,
A friend that is always there.
…Khahlil Gibran
A poem from Khahili Gibran, I have loved his work since I was a teenager.
A few weeks ago we lost our little micro mini pig, Miss Piggy, she lived here at the farm with our other pot bellied pig Wilbur. We were saddened by the lost and realized that we would have to find a new special friend for Wilbur soon. Then things got a little busy with everyone being sick and my mother in law passing away. Wilbur kept getting out of his pen, something he never did when Miss Piggy was alive. Well, while out Wilbur checked out all the other animals in the barn and decided to visit Moonpie, our stud llama who is in a stall by himself. The two have become best buds in just a couple of days! Yesterday I moved a dog house into Moonpie’s stall for Wilbur. Everytime I went down to check on the goat to see if she was in labor I checked on Wilbur and Moonpie. Wilbur was sound asleep in his pig house and Moonpie was laying right next to him. This proves two things: First, animals do mourn the loss of their friends. Second, friends can come in all shapes and sizes!
Here are pictures of Wilbur and Moonpie!
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MOONPIE
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Miss Piggy & Wilbur
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Another funny picture from the farm!

I don't think I should be driving this close to my due date!!!!!
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November 8, 2009 at 7:41 am (Family & Friends)
We arrived late yesterday afternoon in Zanesville for my mother in law, Betty’s funeral. It was a nice ride here we followed John, Tracy and Jack in their car. Jack seemed to do pretty good on the ride. Jack and I are both under the weather but did ok on the long trip.I couldn’t help but reflect on all the times we made this trip to visit Grandpa and Grandma when the kids were young. About an hour before we would get here they would all get excited and antsy in the car. Betty would have cooked all our favorite things and would make her wonderful peanut butter fudge for us. They looked forward to our visits and now as grandparents we understand their excitement even more. I was blessed to have a wonderful mother in law in Betty. She was a kind and sweet person. If anyone would be the example of a true Christian, it would be Betty. she was kind and thoughtful and never judgemental. Kathy, from Ohio and I talked on the phone before we came, talking about how good Betty had been to us when our kids were babies. She loved to watch them and never missed an opportunity to tell us what good mothers we were. She was a wonderful support system for us. Betty did not have an easy life and after Harry, (Jim’s Dad) died she lived with her family. She loved that part of her life, she loved being around her sister and family and loved her nieces and nephews. I am sure that was one of the high points in her life. I was blessed to have had great grandparents and I am very thankful that our children did too! I bet you Betty is up there making her peanut butter fudge! I know that she will be happy to see those who have gone before her, Harry and her family. i know that Betty is up there refreshed in God’s presence and taking care of others still! We love you Betty!
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October 31, 2009 at 6:38 pm (Family & Friends)
Hope everyone is especially nice to those little trick or treaters coming around tonight! For the last couple of years we have not had any come to either of our houses and I do miss it. I thought of the years past, dressing the kids up and taking them out. Sure do miss those times! Then Tracy sent me a picture or two of little Jack dressed ( and undressed) and I couldn’t stop laughing! What do you think???
Well, today was suppose to be a cleaning day but I jumped when hubby asked me to go to the nursery with him to pick up some plants. We also made a stop at the farmers market and got five more baby chicks to add to our chick nursery, LOL. We are having a chicken coop delivered Monday and I’m sure that is going to make it a little bit easier to look after the brood.
On our way home, Jim asked if I wanted to stop at a local winery and vineyard just a couple of miles from our farm. Let’s see, wine tasting or cleaning? Umm, there was no thinking about it. We stopped at Perigeaux Vineyards and Winery in St. Leonard. It was a beautiful rural setting and the co- owner, Mr. Fleming was a wonderful host as we samples a few of his wines. We left with 2 bottles. My selection a bottle of Perigeaux Merlot 2007, a yummy ( I am enjoying it as a type ) medium bodied wine with hints of oak and blackberry. Hubby chose a bottle of Mackall Merlot 2007, a little fuller bodied than mine with hints of raspberry. So we may not get too much done around the farm this evening. Here is a picture from their website and a link. Check them out and come down and visit, enjoy the fall leaves and winery! Just another excuse for our wine loving friends to come visit!
http://www.perigeaux.com

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October 12, 2009 at 12:59 pm (Family & Friends, Our favorite things, Refections, Things we love to do, Uncategorized)
Jack is here visiting with his Mommy and her friend from Texas, Karah! Everyone is having a wonderful time except little Jack who is having some stomach issues. Lucky for Jack he has some many loving arms to hold him. I got to enjoy Jack through the night yesterday and for someone not feeling well he was a really good baby! The girls and I are having a tea this afternoon so I’ll post picture later. Here the little guy on his one month birthday! Happy Birthday Buddy!
As the afternoon progressed Karah and Tracy went to Solomons Island and then shopping. It was tea for five when they got home. Tracy , Karah, Sara, Jack and I. Can you see Jack enjoying the tea ? LOL. It was a lovely afternoon spent with three young woman that would make any mother proud!
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October 26, 2008 at 8:49 am (Calvert County, Family & Friends, Maryland, Our favorite things, Pictures, Things To Do, Things we love to do)
Tags: Calvert County, Cheasapeake Auction House, Maryland, Southern Maryland

Since moving here to Calvert County, Jim and I are known to attend the auctions at the Chesapeake Auction & Marketplace. Just ask our kids! We refer to it as our date night. The Marketplace and Auction house can be found just off Calvert Beach Road in St. Leonard, Maryland. It’s just a couple of minutes from our house. We’ve gotten some wonderful items from the auctions at terrific bargin prices, just check out some of the pictures of our bargins here.
We’ve gotten some really neat pieces from the auctions, Sara and Matthew are starting to catch on and have been known to even hang out with Mom and Dad there. (Sara and Matt are looking for apartment furniture!) It’s a fun place and the people who work there are really nice. We’ve also meet a lot of new people that way! It’s fun to have the Victorian style house to decorate. The people there must think we are crazy for some of the stuff we bid on, as our taste can be eclectic at times! The shops in the Market Place have a wonderful variety of antiques and collectables. The book shop is fun, brings me back to my days working in the library. We shop for stuff that we like and makes us happy. (I would tell everyone about our beautiful tanning bed that we got at the auction for $100.00 but you would all be over here tanning all the time! LOL.) We are having fun and if your trying to find us on a Friday night that’s where we will be. Kay and Larry’s daughter, Nicole runs a Gourmet Snack Bar there and is an excellent cook. ( The only place I’ve had Tuna Pasta Salad made like Nana’s.) We look forward to our dinners there. Hats off to Nicole for taking so much pride in her cooking! 
Here is a sample menu from last week!
Menu
Homemade Beef Stew
Cheese Burger w/Fries
Fish & Chips
Chicken Tender w/Fries
Shrimp Basket
Hot Dogs
Nacho Pie
Pumpkin Bread Pudding
Carrot Cake
White cake w/chocolate Icing
Come join us for some good old fashion fun!
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